The Joy of Giving
“The point is this: whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows bountifully will also reap bountifully. Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that having all sufficiency in all things at all times, you may abound in every good work.” (II Corinthians 9:6-8)
I stumbled across a surprising joy. It was at the street market in Kisumu, western Kenya, but a short walk to the shore of Lake Victoria. Twenty or thirty little street-side shops lined the way. Mind you, a “shop” is just a plastic tarp stretched across a few upright poles, and tables and boards on the ground packed with stone carvings, bowls and trinkets.
After a couple of years visiting such markets around the world, something inside of me began to stretch and change. Suddenly, I began to see people. I became ever more intrigued and amused by the shop owners’ industrious efforts, their hard and soft sell tactics, the way these merchants position people in their booths, the way they pull prospective buyers aside and take them into feigned confidence about a price. These merchants – barely scraping by, particularly when the tourist trade went south after 9/11, are admirable citizens in my book. I love them. My dream profession would be reaching out to them and their families, serving them in love with physical and spiritual help.
I began to see people, not carvings and curios. They are people with families to feed. And they are very adroit judges of human character. My joyous new perspective happened when the fetters on the little, constricted box in my heart, suddenly broke.
Of course, there are no set prices. Locals pay a fraction of what an American will fork over, no matter how much dickering goes on. My natural inclination (and that of every one I’ve ever known) is to negotiate, to walk away, to “offer half,” no matter what the asking price. I was just like anyone else, until the day I found joy in the old Kisumu market.
I asked how much he wanted for a beautifully carved and painted stone box, made in the shape of Africa. “Three dollars.” “No, that won’t do,” I replied in feigned disgust. He shot back his retort, “Please sir! This is high quality!” “Nope… Can’t do it,” I repeated, a smirk emerging below my unkempt mustache. Oh, he’d end up dropping the price, but not without the requisite dance of his craft. But suddenly I threw him a curve. “I’ll give you five.” He was stunned; thought I was joking. I handed him the five dollars. “You work hard! You’re worth it!” He was speechless. He held the money, dumbfounded, as if he hadn’t earned it and didn’t even know if he should take it! I laughed with delight.
This man makes $500 dollars a YEAR! Why in the world would I harass him about two bucks? Two bucks will pay his kid’s school fees for a week! After I spent about twenty-five dollars on a half dozen such transactions from three or four dealers, a wall came down. I began talking to them about their families, their lives, their work. I shared the gospel of Christ. Many are already Christians. One man even ended up attending the local Lutheran church, after I did business with him over the course of a couple of years (II Corinthians 9:13). The joy I experienced when God helped me stop worrying about paying a buck instead of two, is a moment to treasure. It was a moment of joy.
What is it about money? What is that little switch that is tripped deep within our being, right between the compassion and responsibility buttons, when money is involved? Money is a funny thing. It makes us crazy. Why does money so often render us not only cheap, and joyless, often under a masquarade of responsibility? Henry Nouwen made a profound observation:
Where is your security base? Is it in God or is it in money? It’s very interesting and it’s very important to realize that money is one of the greatest taboos around. Greater than sex, greater than religion. A lot of people say, “Don’t talk about religion, that’s my private business. Don’t talk about sex.” But talking about money is even harder.
Money is one of the greatest taboos... And the reason for the taboo is that money obviously has something to do with that intimate little place in your heart where you need security, and you don’t want to give that away. (Spirituality of Fund Raising, 1992)
“That little place in your hearth” is the place we reserve for our idols. “No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other... You cannot serve God and money.” (Matthew 6:24) There’s not a untainted heart in human history, not one un-condemned by this statement of Jesus. Greed is hardly the sole possession of rich. I’ve seen an impoverished man cling to greed for what he thought was dear life. “The love of money is the root of all kinds of evil.” (I Timothy 6:10) The quality of greed can remain quite high no matter the quantity of money.
Greed makes the great sin lists of the bible, because mammon vies with God for our trust, our security, our hope. It lives in that “intimate little place in your heart,” meant for God alone. “For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power” (II Timothy 3:20) Among those of us with means, it’s much easier to hide greed under the appearance of uprightness and reasonableness than it is other sins. “Why this waste? For this could have been sold for a large sum and given to the poor.” (Matthew 26:8-9) Whatever does not belong to Jesus in that little place in our hearts, must daily be drowned and killed, and swept away. “Oh wretched man that I am! Who will save me from this body of death?” (Romans 7:24)
“God loves a cheerful giver.” The joyous word in the Greek is “hilaron” from which we get “hilarity,” “hilarious.” It appears but twice in the New Testament. “In both passages the freedom and authenticity of generous giving are marked by the symptom of cheerfulness.” (TDNT 3.298) I like that. “Symptom of cheerfulness” says Bultmann, the evidence of a heart infected by Jesus! Paul, of course (quoting Proverbs 22:9) encourages the Corinthians to be generous to the saints suffering poverty and famine in Jerusalem. That’s the “hilarity” the Lord loves. Hilarious joy comes another time in Romans, where Paul encourages that “the one who does acts of mercy, [do so] with cheerfulness.” (Romans 12:8) “Hilarity” – that special, cheerful, hopeful joy, which overlooks everything (like Zacchaeus up a tree) and sees only Christ himself in the neighbor in need (Matthew 25:41) – is connected especially with helping the needy. And it’s willing to be wronged. “If you never want to be fooled, you will never give money.” (Nouwen) But how shall I find such joy in giving? I’ve got a little Pharisee residing in my heart! “The Pharisees, who were lovers of money, heard all these things, and they ridiculed him.” (Matthew 16:14) But, one by one, Jesus bursts the bonds of fettered hearts, and drags another Pharisee kicking and screaming, through confession and absolution, to joy. The result is a cheerful generosity!
He entered Jericho and was passing through. And there was a man named Zacchaeus. He was a chief tax collector and was rich. And he was seeking to see who Jesus was, but on account of the crowd he could not, because he was small of stature. So he ran on ahead and climbed up into a sycamore tree to see him, for he was about to pass that way. And when Jesus came to the place, he looked up and said to him, “Zacchaeus, hurry and come down, for I must stay at your house today.” So he hurried and came down and received him joyfully. And when they saw it, they all grumbled, “He has gone in to be the guest of a man who is a sinner.” And Zacchaeus stood and said to the Lord, “Behold, Lord, the half of my goods I give to the poor. And if I have defrauded anyone of anything, I restore it fourfold.” And Jesus said to him, “Today salvation has come to this house, since he also is a son of Abraham. For the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost.” (Luke 19:1-10)
Jesus is the “greatest joy the human heart can experience” (Luther; WA 21.293). The Joy over Jesus is the “real motive of ethical behavior” (Elert, Structure p. 69). In the case of Zacchaeus the result was generous “hilarity,” four times his former greed!
The secret of joy (being a cheerful giver) begins in the first of five adjectives in the New Testament’s great “God loves a cheerful giver,” passage. The secret is all in verse 8. All in all, the secret is all in the “all.”
“God is able” [we are not able], “to make ALL grace abound to you.” God makes his plenitude of grace – grace in the word of forgiveness, grace in holy baptism, grace in the sacrament, grace in the consolation of a brother or sister in Christ – abound. Grace breaks the fetters because it cannot be contained, it cannot be controlled. It’s stronger all sin, all death, and all the power of the devil. Good cheer and generosity is the product of a heart set free from its gods. The alliteration, which follows in the Greed text, is delightful. “pan-TI, PAN-to-te, PAS-an, pan.”
“So that in all things [pan-TI]” – every chance we have, every person we meet, every gift we can give. “The gift is acceptable” by grace “not according to what one does not have, but according to what one has.” (II Corinthians 8:12) It’s not the size of the gift that matters, but the gift given from a heart set free. “Truly, I say to you, this poor widow has put in more than all those who are contributing to the offering box. For they all contributed out of their abundance, but she out of her poverty has put in everything she had, all she had to live on.” (Mark 12:43-44).
“Always [PAN-to-te]” – on every occasion, a cheerful heart set free looks for the opportunity, and finds it on the smallest and most insignificant times and places. “But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.” (Mathew 6:4)
“Having ALL [PAS-an] sufficiency” – a cheerful heart rests in freedom, and is restless in love, because it knows it has sufficient means to act in love. “Your Father knows what you need before you ask him.” (Matthew 6:8)
“You may abound in EVERY [PAN] good work.” – those good works are at hand in every person we meet, especially the needy. “For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.” (Matthew 25:35-36).
There is the secret to joy in giving. When Jesus dwells in that “secret place,” how can we possibly “begrudge” him his “generosity” (Matthew 20:15)? Jack, a very generous and joyous giver, once told me, “Pastor, when I started giving, I found that God blessed me beyond what I could have imagined. I can not shovel it out faster than he brings it in.” There is the secret to living a good news life in a bad news world.
Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life? And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin, yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
“Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble. (Matthew 6:25-34)